The Question-to Co-Op or Not to Co-op

I know I've been a little quiet lately.  It seems that my creative writing side has taken a backseat to my mind's in overdrive planning side.  So, I thought I'd fill you in on the plans.  Maybe you have ideas, suggestions, insight, a good suggestion for drinks....any of the above will do :).

It all stemmed from the conversation with one of the other coordinators for our co-op.  She is leaving our Friday group to join a full fledged licensed Classical Conversations group.  She mentioned that there *might* be a chance I could be a tutor in their group, which would make it affordable for my family to join.  For a full 24 hours I was seriously contemplating (maybe even excited about) the idea of joining a full group, getting all the benefits of CC, all the fun, all socialization, you know all the hopes and dreams that a co-op or CC group offers.

So, I went home and excitedly told DH about the possibility, and was he interested?  Cause, if I did decide to join up I knew I had to be prepared to pay the full $$ if they didn't need me as a tutor.  And, then he started in with the questions.

To be totally honest, I don't remember exactly what HIS questions where.  But, as he talked and asked, I managed to form a whole new opinion on CC, our Friday co-op, and started SERIOUSLY re-evaluating what our 'school year' would look like next year.

These are the main questions:

1.  Why join an academic co-op or tutor group when the whole reason you chose to home educate was to be the one teaching the kids?

2. Why spend extra time, energy, planning, travel, etc just to go somewhere else and teach your kids alongside other children?

3. Why are you in a co-op?

4. What do you want from a co-op?

5. Are you getting that from the co-op you are in?

6. Is either group what you are looking for to fill those wants?


These questions TOTALLY STRESSED ME OUT.  To the point that I actually had to spend a little time on my knees at the altar during one recent church service.  It seems so small, but so huge all at the same time.  I mean, this is my children's education I was considering.  These groups are places they see their friends.  These groups are places I see MY friends.

But, in the end, these are the answers I feel the Lord gave me:

1.  Why join an academic co-op or tutor group when the whole reason you chose to home educate was to be the one teaching the kids?

This was a major eye opener for me.  I have no problem letting other people (even public schools) teach my children.  I'm not afraid of what they will teach, I just WANT to be the one doing it.  I believe God gave me the right skill set to teach my children, and because of that I can do the BEST job.  So, when DH asked me this question I had NO answer. ZERO.   He was like-if you want to spend 1000 a year sending the kids to a tutor, I know a school I can send them to for free.  Point was well taken!!

2.  Why spend extra time, energy, planning, travel, etc just to go somewhere else and teach your kids alongside other children?

IF I thought they were going to learn better in a group setting it would be different, or IF the lesson was pretty much EXACTLY what we were going to learn at home, I wouldn't have a problem putting in the time.  But, the problem is, it was neither.  We don't use the Classical style at home, nor do we use the CC material at home.  So, with either group I would be preparing for a day of lessons and then going and giving a day of lessons-taking quite a bit of time away from what I would really like to be doing!

3.  Why are you in a co-op?

At this point, I really didn't know anymore!!  It took me awhile to realize I was in a co-op for FUN and for ACTIVITIES, and for doing things we COULDN'T do at home.

4.  What do you want from a co-op?

I want ways to expand the learning we are doing at home, or to do things we couldn't possibly do at home, or-honestly-I just wanted an opportunity to socialize with other home schooling families.  Maybe not even LEARN with them??  You know, kinda the way that public school children just get together and play without having to be 'doing school?'  Hmm yeah.

5.  Are you getting that from the co-op you are in?

We have been getting a lot of socialization.  We have had some awesome opportunities for the kids to learn fine arts (art lessons, tin whistle lessons, the chance to see a bunch of instruments), and the timeline has been awesome!  So, it has NOT been a bust.  Believe me, I am thankful for all the amazing benefits our group has provided my family this year!!

6. Is either group what you are looking for to fill those wants? 

Kinda, but not exactly.  After MUCH prayer and thought, and more prayer, and more thoughts....I have come to the conclusion that weekly academic co-ops are not for us next year.  Maybe in the future, but not right now.

Why??  Well, because we are in our weekly co-op, we don't sign up for anything else.  We have Monday night small group, Wednesday night AWANA, Friday co-op, and Saturday church.  As you can see, we don't have any flex time in our weeks.

Our huge overhead co-op has MANY other activities we could be part of, but I don't have another day to give.  The local Salvation Army offers swim lessons (with special sessions just for homeschoolers) and FREE beginner's music lessons!  But, we don't have any extra days!  We went on one-yes, you heard that right-ONE field trip this year, because again-I didn't have any more days.

Do I think that giving up one commitment a week is going to transform our lives?  I don't know yet.  I am seriously considering dropping AWANA, but that is just really hard for me to consider now-so maybe we'll try that one more year.

The swim sessions and music sessions are 8 week commitments.  I like a short commitment for things that don't take any prep work on my part, so we will be looking into those.  And, maybe a few art classes at the Art Center.  And, some field trips...Short commitments, little prep work, socialization, and hopefully a big payoff in the form of a less overwhelmed momma.

So that's the nutshell:  Not to co-op.

I'd love to hear YOUR plans for this next year!!

God Bless,
Lisa

Our Classical Conversations Co-Op

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This year, our homeschool Co-op is going to be using the Classical Conversations Foundations as it's guide. We are an unlicensed, modified, group.  I want you to know, right off the bat, that I highly recommend a true licensed group and can see the benefits of it. Many in our group simply could not afford it.  I will be highlighting a lot of what we do in our group this year here on my blog, and I want to be able to reference this post, with all the details of what we are doing, so I don't have to repeat myself every time I post :).

What we are doing with our group:  

We meet once a week for an hour and a half.  We accept ages 3-12 (most only being 3-9).  We do not charge a fee.  We require purchase of the Foundations guide.  We recommend that each family purchase the audio CD or Resource CD and the timeline cards-I believe all the families have done so.  We also require parents to be teachers, room moms, nursery workers, and snack teachers.  

Each parent is required to sign up for a 6 week teaching slot in one of our classrooms.  We have created a slot for just one Fine Arts teacher, who teaches all the different classes.  The kids leave their memory work classroom to go to the Fine Arts classroom so she does not have to move.  We also offer a nursery to facilitate all the moms with kids.  Oh, we have a different Fine Arts teacher for each of the 4 Fine Arts subjects.  We teach Grammar, Timeline, History Sentences, and Math.  

We do NOT offer Science, Geography, or Latin. We do NOT have paid tutors.  We do not require a parent to be in the class at all times-just a room mom.  We do not have enough parents to require them to be in the class and fill all our other needed slots of teaching, nursery, snack, etc. 

We begin our group with an assembly where we say the pledge, pray, and do a family presentation (this is the only presentation that we do).  We also learn Greek as a group.  

There is a licensed group about 40 miles away that just started this past July.  I HIGHLY suspect that we will end up acting as a feeder group for those that can afford to do the full CC program to go into their group.  Our group came as an idea for something better and different then the basic preschool program we offered last year.  Some of the families could afford the full CC program, but had never heard of it before.  Some, couldn't afford the full program if they wanted to.

Now, when we started talking about using the CC program, we had about 25-35 kids in the mix that we thought would be involved.  When we shared with our co-op what we were offering for our young students this year, we had over 50 kids sign up!!  We should have seen this coming since 2 years ago our group consisted of-get this-10 kids total!! But we still weren't expecting 50.  The 50 doesn't include the 14 children we have in our nursery!  

It has been a huge challenge to figure out how to organize such a big group of students when we ourselves had never used the CC program at all.  So, I can totally see how having a paid group of tutors and organizers would be very helpful!!  I have no idea how much the directors or tutors get paid in a true CC group, but I am sure they earn their money!!  

I am so thankful to be able to offer our unlicensed group to our Co-op as our ministry.  So many of our moms are brand new to homeschooling and have no idea where to start.  It is nice to give them something to work with at our group and expand upon at home.

You will be seeing many posts this year concerning our group as I share with the other moms in our co-op group and with many friends who are considering CC in their areas.

Thanks for stopping by!

God Bless :)